Bootlicker-Man’s best friend?

I really wanted to understand what a bootlicker is because it is widely used in my country Zambia. It is usually about political cadres who seek favour from people in authority. The same applies to institutions of work. In short, anywhere where there are authority and subordination, there are these characters. If you ask me, these guys referred to as bootlickers do make progress in their fields

And as I searched for the definition, two words came up; 

1.) Obsequious, meaning obedient or attentive to an excessive or servile degree. The other one is; 

2.) Servile, which means having or showing an extreme willingness to serve or please others. Also, means of or characteristic of a slave or slaves. This sounds familiar, isn’t it?

Some people pride themselves as bootlickers. They have invested so much in pleasing people in authority and can say it to your face that they are well connected even if they do not perform, they can still rise above you, and there is nothing you can do about it.

These people tend to have a high degree of respect for anyone in a position of power. And a higher degree of disregard for people without authority. It could be people below them or those at the same level as them.

To understand bootlickers, I remember a story of how humans and dogs became the best of friends. I remember the story, but what I don’t is how the story was told to me. I don’t know if I just read about it or someone narrated it to me. But that does not matter. I will just summarise it the way I understood it.

In the animal kingdom, you are either the hunter or the hunted. The dogs are hunters by nature, the same with humans. Before man and dog became friends, they hunted separately, but dogs noticed that man hunted well. And when a man sits to eat, he will not finish the meal, at least some bones with a great deal of meat will be leftover, and the dogs will clean up and be satisfied without the labor of hunting. So the dogs started trailing man’s moves to live on the left overs, and when noticed, man started giving bones and left over food to the dog. Later, the dog moved closer to the man and became the hunting partner, but man was the master, and the dog will help the man with hunting but will always eat leftover food. And the dog will not let anyone insult its master, and that is how come today, the dog is man’s best friend.

Yes, this sounds familiar in general, social, or work politics. I can relate the superior/subordinate relations, where bootlickers pride themselves to that of the dog and man as hunters.

From my point-of-view, it is not a good thing because this is a kind of relationship that brings compromise to systems and promotes corruption.
I don’t know what you think, but I would love to hear your thoughts if you relate.

Monitoring and Tracking Performance — How We Lead

One of the most important aspects of being an SLII® leader is communicating clearly with people regarding their performance. After you’ve made performance standards clear so that each person knows what a good job looks like, you must closely monitor individual performance and provide frequent feedback. Monitoring and tracking performance is a key directive leadership […]

Monitoring and Tracking Performance — How We Lead

I have found this piece of writing beneficial to me and thought it others can benefit too. Performance management has not been taken seriously in many organizations. Most team leaders ignore the importance of regular performance feedback and wait until the day of the review to surprise you with their observations that they did not bring to your attention in the actual process. Even though you are not management, you can learn and apply it.

The Law of Love

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The Apostle Paul says, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” Let us find joy in giving, helping those in need. This is what Christ showed us.

Queen force 5-12-1954

So 5th December is a beautiful day, especially back in 1954 in Africa south of the equator.

The mother was born on this day. She has mothered me.

As I speak, she is out there wondering how far she will go, considering how far she has come.


Am Her 7th and am proud she born me well and raised me well, she did not have to spend much money to raise me, but she gave me the affection of a mother, priceless.

That’s me


I called Her this morning of 5th December, just to say Happy Birthday (queen force). That is how I have saved Her number on my phone. And that is how my friends and I call our mothers.


She is a force and not a service because I have seen it all.

To all the mothers worldwide, you are a force to reckon with. Without you, we have no life.

No wonder they call it mother earth. We are just kids, believe me.


I am so glad to see Her hit 66 this year, she has seen more than 13 grand Kids, including 2 from me, and she has at-least so far seen 3 great-grandkids.

My Kids
My Niece Cindy Mwansa
Queen Force and her grand Kids, Mwansa, Chilonge and Priscila


My prayer when I was a Kid myself was. ” Mum should live to see me prosper and meet my kids. Prayer answered. Thank you, God.


You can be a stranger to me, but if you know my mother, love her and respect her, you and I are life partners.


If you know my mother, hate her and disrespect her, you and I cannot bond.


Without her passion, you and I were never going to meet, I could have been born and bred, but without her Love, I could have ended up different, worse than what I am now.

My biggest motivation in life was. “Queen force.” I would tell myself, “ I am doing this for you.”
Today, my biggest motivation is My Wife and Kids.

I tell myself, “This one is For My Wife and Kids.”
And accordingly, if my wife and kids are taken care of, the queen force is happy.

My Wife, a mother of two


To all the mothers worldwide, never give up on your kids. You are mother earth. You shall live forever.

To Keep our mothers alive, let us keep giving without expecting anything in return. That is what God wants us to do. Because Giving is Loving.

Hard Times

God’s Promises for our hard times

“When you pass through the waters I will be with you, and the rivers will not cover you. When you walk through fire, you will not be burned, and the flames will not scorch you.” Isaiah 43:2

Devotion

In difficult times, we feel alone and abandoned. You look for help, and no one comes to your aid. Family, friends, workmates, and even congregants neglect us. Many times we even think God has abandoned us and has focused on other people or better things. But keep holding on to Him and believe that He is right with us. What we need to do is focus on Him because he has already given us an assurance that He will never leave us.

Fear Not….

Fear not, for I am with you. I will lead your offspring from the East, and I will gather you from the West. I will say to the North, “Release him,” and the South, “Do not turn him away.” Bring my sons from far away and my daughters from the ends of the earth. Isaiah 43:5-6

To stay in the presence of God during Hard times, let us keep giving love and never expect anything in return because giving is loving, and God is Love.